Researching multiple dentists in the area before deciding on a particular one allows you to find the one that best meets your needs. A pediatric dentist, who deals only with children, tends to be the friendliest environment for first-timers.
A family dentistry practice - especially one that you are already familiar with-also makes a good choice. Look for a warmly-decorated office, plenty of children’s toys and activities in the waiting room, and a staff that has experience handling little ones.
Schedule a tour of the office for your child a few days before their appointment. Maintain an upbeat attitude and point out the many fun aspects of the environment: toys and books in the play area, decorations on the wall, an exam chair that moves up and down, and/or the ‘prize’ area they get to visit when they’re finished. If at all possible, arrange for a quick hello with the dentist and the hygienist that will be involved with your appointment.
During your tour, ask the dental staff if they can provide a quick overview of what to expect during the visit. Ease any distress this causes by letting the dentist demonstrate on your own mouth (this may also be helpful during the real exam). If your child seems fearful of the equipment, try to frame the tools in a playful manner-for example, likening the water pik to a squirt gun.
Generally, the first visit is not very long or invasive. The dentist will more than likely just want to say hello and gently examine the child’s gums and teeth. You should also expect someone to demonstrate proper brushing techniques. Depending on your child’s age and comfort level, they may want to perform a light cleaning. Be sure to ask any questions you may have during this time, and encourage your child to do the same.
Many books have been written to help introduce children of various ages to the dentist. Popular selections include: “Show Me Your Smile! (Dora the Explorer)” by Christine Ricci; “Barney Goes to the Dentist” by Publishing Lyrick; “Just Going to the Dentist” by Mercer Mayer; and “The Berenstain Bears Visit the Dentist” by Stan Berenstain. Pretending to visit the dentist at home using dolls can also make your child more comfortable with the process.
The most common problem experienced during the first dental appointment is simply a toddler’s inability to sit still for very long. Even a dental office that specializes in young patients can experience long delays, so it’s helpful to be prepared to wait. Bring along a favorite stuffed animal, book, or small toy to help keep your child occupied. (Avoid bringing drinks or snacks to the dentist.) You should also be able to draw from the play area for additional activities. Many practices now also feature televisions in each room, which you can tune in to kid-friendly television or movie programs for a distraction.
Often, breaking the ice is actually the most difficult part of the process. If your child has been introduced to the dentist’s office beforehand, and is encouraged to look forward to their check-up, the experience is likely to go off without a hitch.
